Despite the snail-like pace of decent laws and protections, the reality is gays and lesbians are having babies and starting families. It costs a lot of money. It takes time and planning (as much as we wish hopping into bed and f&%#ing like rabbits for a couple months worked – it doesn’t). And it means making some difficult decisions (Is this stranger’s profile right for supplying one half of our child’s genome sequence?).
We started It’s Conceivable to centralize the information we wanted from a parenting website. We’re here to provide clear, no frills, pregnancy and parenting information to the GLBTQ community. Our motto: Less rainbows, more advice.
We have straight friends – and gay friends.
We’re just trying to get through the commute.
We do get upset over anti-gay politicians, proposals, and political maneuvers in general.
We don’t get upset if we see a phallic sculpture in our straight friends’ homes.
We want gays to be able to start a family without winning the state lotto, hijacking the sperm of male friends, or potentially attempting insurance fraud.
lives in Brooklyn. She likes writing, weird ads, astrology, and exercise apps. She hopes to have kids someday. She grew up around some farmland in Illinois, and, as a consequence, loves and cannot leave New York City.
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is performing the amazing feat of raising twins and working full-time. She loves triathalons, telling dirty jokes, and keeping it real. She was born and raised in Queens, but still likes living in Brooklyn.
doesn't mess around. She has an answer for you - and a damn good one. She's noticed you, but she won't tell you yet. She and her wife are expecting a girl in August.
is currently a full-time "slava:" a slave to Ava her new baby. She is also the spouse of a diplomat, which means packing up the cats and moving to a new faraway land every few years. They’ve lived in Cyprus and Greece and head to Finland next year. In the meantime, Jen and her partner Barb are the only lesbians that live in the gayborhood of Chelsea and they love it.
suspects that she is a musical trapped in a human's body, but don't tell anyone. She grew up in Alabama and has made her home in some far-flung places, most recently flinging herself and her wife from Texas to Brooklyn. She likes words, dance parties and pogo sticks. Visit her at katiefperry.tumblr.com
is so nice and smart, he'll spoil other men for you. When he's not building websites, he's riding his bike all over New York City. He lives in Brooklyn with his equally nice and smart wife and not-so-smart cats.
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